How to want to have sex when you're in a long-term relationship
"I want to want sex"…But what if the desire never left?
One of the most common things women have admitted to me over the last 12 years…
Do you trust money more than your partner?
You trust money to hold you more than your partner…and that’s exactly why more of it isn’t flowing.
But it goes deeper than that.
You trust money more than what you say matters most.
Lauren White - The Business Sexologist
Make the money you want & open to receive the love you desire by turning your most powerful receptive frequency all the way on.
My business advice blog for women who want more, tells you exactly how…
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October 2025
- Oct 16, 2025 Why you’re not turned on in sex - even though you love them Oct 16, 2025
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September 2025
- Sep 29, 2025 What to do when sex is suddenly a problem in your relationship Sep 29, 2025
- Sep 11, 2025 What to do when you’ve got sexual blocks Sep 11, 2025
- Sep 10, 2025 How to make sex more satisfying Sep 10, 2025
- Sep 8, 2025 Why you’re being overlooked as a sexual woman in your relationship Sep 8, 2025
- Sep 5, 2025 How to want to have sex when you're in a long-term relationship Sep 5, 2025
- Sep 4, 2025 It’s not desire discrepancy or mismatched libidos – it’s this Sep 4, 2025
- Sep 4, 2025 Why you don’t want sex – even though it’s good when it happens Sep 4, 2025
- Sep 2, 2025 Why you pull away in sex Sep 2, 2025
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August 2025
- Aug 14, 2025 Feeling like roommates? How to reconnect and bring back the spark in your relationship Aug 14, 2025
- Aug 13, 2025 Women don’t need sex therapy… Aug 13, 2025
- Aug 11, 2025 What I’d do if I were you and I wanted better intimacy… Aug 11, 2025
- Aug 8, 2025 What your money disagreements are really about Aug 8, 2025
- Aug 5, 2025 The secret upper limit capping your income…that’s got nothing to do with money Aug 5, 2025
- Aug 4, 2025 How to get a satisfying sex life as a high-performer Aug 4, 2025
- Aug 3, 2025 Has money been penetrating you more than your partner? Aug 3, 2025
- Aug 2, 2025 You’ll have better sex when you stop doing this Aug 2, 2025
- Aug 1, 2025 Why you’re scared of separating from your partner Aug 1, 2025
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July 2025
- Jul 31, 2025 Do you trust money more than your partner? Jul 31, 2025
- Jul 30, 2025 The real reason you aren’t fully expressed in your business Jul 30, 2025
- Jul 29, 2025 Why you’re holding back from having a better sex life Jul 29, 2025
- Jul 28, 2025 Your lack of relationship boundaries are blocking your business growth Jul 28, 2025
- Jul 27, 2025 She got the money and the love – Client case study Jul 27, 2025
- Jul 22, 2025 Why you’re avoiding sex Jul 22, 2025
- Jul 21, 2025 What a power couple does for their sex life Jul 21, 2025
- Jul 20, 2025 What it’s like to work with Lauren White – Client case study Jul 20, 2025
- Jul 18, 2025 Why you turn away from your partner in sex Jul 18, 2025
- Jul 16, 2025 You’re a CEO who wants to surrender and let go in sex - here’s how Jul 16, 2025
- Jul 15, 2025 How to have better weekend sex Jul 15, 2025
- Jul 11, 2025 She said: “we never do it anymore…” Jul 11, 2025
- Jul 8, 2025 Being in your feminine is blocking your business fire Jul 8, 2025
- Jul 4, 2025 Why high-performing women lose desire when business slows down Jul 4, 2025
- Jul 3, 2025 Why smart women struggle in the bedroom Jul 3, 2025
- Jul 2, 2025 Why you can’t use your business brain for a better sex life Jul 2, 2025
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June 2025
- Jun 30, 2025 How sex makes you more money in business Jun 30, 2025
- Jun 27, 2025 How to have the best sex of your life as a high-performer Jun 27, 2025
- Jun 25, 2025 I’m a sexologist in couples therapy for four years – you need to know this about sex & connection Jun 25, 2025
- Jun 23, 2025 Why high-performing couples feel disconnected in the bedroom Jun 23, 2025
- Jun 22, 2025 The real reason you can’t just get your sex life back Jun 22, 2025
- Jun 19, 2025 The business block that lives between the sheets Jun 19, 2025
- Jun 15, 2025 Your 8-figure+ relationship needs more than 6-figure level tools. Jun 15, 2025
- Jun 14, 2025 When was the last time you fucked in the kitchen on a Tuesday night? Jun 14, 2025
- Jun 13, 2025 How to be a high-performing power couple Jun 13, 2025
- Jun 10, 2025 When control in business becomes disconnection in the bedroom Jun 10, 2025
- Jun 6, 2025 This sexologist says: You should watch Babygirl… Jun 6, 2025
- Jun 4, 2025 The sexual chemistry isn’t there – should you separate? Jun 4, 2025
- Jun 2, 2025 How to get a sex life that cracks you open and leaves you whole. Jun 2, 2025
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May 2025
- May 26, 2025 I had NFI I was going back on a sexuality retreat… May 26, 2025
- May 23, 2025 Your dirty little secret? You’re deeply fucking bored. May 23, 2025
- May 21, 2025 Her sex life was wild but her business felt anything but… May 21, 2025
- May 16, 2025 Why you don’t feel sexually free May 16, 2025
- May 13, 2025 If you’re not fucking freely, you’re not fucking free. May 13, 2025
- May 12, 2025 Do you need to label your sexuality? May 12, 2025
- May 9, 2025 Sex Appeal: What if owning your truth is the real turn on? With Host Emily Paulsen May 9, 2025
- May 8, 2025 Will being honest about your sexuality blow up your life? May 8, 2025
- May 2, 2025 How to be erotically liberated May 2, 2025
- May 1, 2025 Your coming out isn’t about flaunting, it’s about being free. May 1, 2025
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April 2025
- Apr 29, 2025 What to do when commitment doesn’t feel like freedom. Apr 29, 2025
- Apr 28, 2025 What to do about your attraction to women… Apr 28, 2025
- Apr 27, 2025 The hardest part of coming out as bisexual Apr 27, 2025
- Apr 24, 2025 My client said: If I get the money, I won’t need the love… Apr 24, 2025
- Apr 23, 2025 How your partner’s comfort is costing you your next level in business Apr 23, 2025
- Apr 20, 2025 Why you have to work on love even if you’re in a committed relationship Apr 20, 2025
- Apr 15, 2025 Your fear of your partner rejecting you is why you’re not making the money you want. Apr 15, 2025
- Apr 14, 2025 I’m not lucky to be married to a man who serves me – this is the standard Apr 14, 2025
- Apr 12, 2025 The next level clients & money are being held up…by your partner Apr 12, 2025
- Apr 10, 2025 What *really* happened in client sessions this week… Apr 10, 2025
- Apr 8, 2025 You’re seen online – now be seen in the bedroom as well Apr 8, 2025
- Apr 5, 2025 If you want bliss, don’t call your partner *this* Apr 5, 2025
- Apr 1, 2025 This contradiction in your bedroom is blocking your next level money Apr 1, 2025
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March 2025
- Mar 27, 2025 Why your partner isn’t obsessed with you anymore Mar 27, 2025
- Mar 25, 2025 Scared you’ll separate if you make more money? Why you’re capping your income. Mar 25, 2025
- Mar 23, 2025 The one feeling & frequency that’s cock-blocking your income Mar 23, 2025
- Mar 21, 2025 You love them but you don’t want to fuck them… Mar 21, 2025
- Mar 20, 2025 Get your climax to blow up your business Mar 20, 2025
- Mar 18, 2025 How to get your pleasure to make you serious profit Mar 18, 2025
- Mar 16, 2025 What to do when you’re a rich bitch but you’re empty AF Mar 16, 2025
- Mar 15, 2025 What it’s like to have Lauren White as your business mentor for 5 years – A client vignette Mar 15, 2025
- Mar 13, 2025 Why more action won’t make you more money (but this will) Mar 13, 2025
- Mar 8, 2025 You’re gambling in business but playing it safe in love Mar 8, 2025
- Mar 7, 2025 Is your relationship cockblocking your business success? Mar 7, 2025
- Mar 6, 2025 How to get everything you want in business and the bedroom Mar 6, 2025
- Mar 3, 2025 How to wildly transform your business in just days Mar 3, 2025
- Mar 1, 2025 Why your next-level wealth can't flow to you – even when it's ready to. Mar 1, 2025
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February 2025
- Feb 28, 2025 Being regulated in business – What no one talks about… Feb 28, 2025
- Feb 27, 2025 When success feels like boredom, it's not your business – it's your bedroom Feb 27, 2025
- Feb 25, 2025 The wealth you want will come when you do this in sex... Feb 25, 2025
- Feb 24, 2025 How sex and intimacy fast-track your business growth Feb 24, 2025
- Feb 22, 2025 Why you don't have a low libido Feb 22, 2025
- Feb 21, 2025 Why you can't let go in sex Feb 21, 2025
- Feb 20, 2025 You're chasing money with your mind but you won't find it there... Feb 20, 2025
- Feb 19, 2025 Why do I avoid sex? – You're not avoiding sex...you're avoiding this. Feb 19, 2025
- Feb 17, 2025 How to receive more money and love as a woman in business Feb 17, 2025
- Feb 16, 2025 What you need to do to make more money in business Feb 16, 2025
- Feb 15, 2025 Is your partner holding your business success back? Feb 15, 2025
- Feb 14, 2025 Do you need to be more feminine to make more money? Feb 14, 2025
- Feb 13, 2025 Why you feel unfulfilled in business and the bedroom Feb 13, 2025
- Feb 12, 2025 How to get to your next level in business from what happens in the bedroom Feb 12, 2025
- Feb 11, 2025 What to do when sex feels just like your business Feb 11, 2025
- Feb 10, 2025 How a satisfying sex life makes you more money Feb 10, 2025
- Feb 9, 2025 How to have a power relationship when you're a woman in business Feb 9, 2025
- Feb 8, 2025 Women, we need to talk about what to do when sex is boring Feb 8, 2025
- Feb 7, 2025 You'll get paid more money when you're no longer scared to be rich AF Feb 7, 2025
- Feb 6, 2025 Make more money in business doing what the fuck you want Feb 6, 2025
- Feb 3, 2025 Your client's will pay you more when you speak your full truth Feb 3, 2025
- Feb 2, 2025 What to do when you've outgrown your clients Feb 2, 2025
- Feb 1, 2025 How to sell out your business retreat Feb 1, 2025
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January 2025
- Jan 24, 2025 You being nice is repelling your high level clients Jan 24, 2025
- Jan 23, 2025 The real reason why your high level offer isn't selling Jan 23, 2025
- Jan 22, 2025 How being disagreeable will make you millions Jan 22, 2025
- Jan 21, 2025 How to get premium clients that pay you way more money Jan 21, 2025
- Jan 20, 2025 Not speaking your truth to clients is capping your income Jan 20, 2025
- Jan 19, 2025 High level clients can't buy from you when you say *this* Jan 19, 2025
- Jan 17, 2025 Be a bitch to magnetise dream clients Jan 17, 2025
- Jan 16, 2025 Why you're not making the money you want Jan 16, 2025
- Jan 15, 2025 How to be the authority in your niche Jan 15, 2025
- Jan 14, 2025 You'll make more money when you stop trying to be perfect Jan 14, 2025
- Jan 13, 2025 Why you're not getting paid to do what you want Jan 13, 2025
- Jan 12, 2025 How to make 2025 your best year in business Jan 12, 2025
- Jan 10, 2025 How to be visible to high level clients Jan 10, 2025
- Jan 9, 2025 Why you're selling things you don't want to in business Jan 9, 2025
- Jan 8, 2025 Choosing approval over authority is costing you high level sales Jan 8, 2025
- Jan 7, 2025 Why you're bored with your mainstream offers that sell on repeat Jan 7, 2025
- Jan 6, 2025 Selling your high level offer is like seducing a lover into the bedroom… Jan 6, 2025
- Jan 5, 2025 Why you're constantly being overlooked by dream clients... Jan 5, 2025
- Jan 4, 2025 You're a disruptor so you're here to shake shit up Jan 4, 2025
- Jan 3, 2025 Your business isn't growing because you're not enjoying it... Jan 3, 2025
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December 2024
- Dec 31, 2024 Why listening to your intuition won't grow your business Dec 31, 2024
- Dec 30, 2024 Why you're bored in your business Dec 30, 2024
- Dec 28, 2024 Why you over-deliver with your clients Dec 28, 2024
- Dec 25, 2024 You want to make more money but you're keeping your prices low Dec 25, 2024
- Dec 24, 2024 How to get more money for your high level offer in business Dec 24, 2024
- Dec 23, 2024 What will take your business to the next level Dec 23, 2024
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November 2024
- Nov 4, 2024 Is your partner holding your business back? Nov 4, 2024
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October 2024
- Oct 30, 2024 Why you should hire a sexologist for more business power Oct 30, 2024
- Oct 28, 2024 Being naked in public doesn't scare me...but this does. Oct 28, 2024
- Oct 15, 2024 Why I won’t tell you to be more feminine in business Oct 15, 2024
- Oct 11, 2024 Plug the leaks for more power in your voice, body and business Oct 11, 2024
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December 2023
- Dec 27, 2023 Your martyr mode is anti-pleasure - take the power back Dec 27, 2023
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October 2023
- Oct 26, 2023 Why stress is your biggest libido blocker in your business and bedroom Oct 26, 2023
- Oct 19, 2023 How to feel pleasure during hard and stressful times in life Oct 19, 2023
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August 2023
- Aug 2, 2023 The Bigger your Power, the Bigger the Leaks... Let's PLUG them Aug 2, 2023
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July 2023
- Jul 6, 2023 Live and Lead beyond the 3 habits blocking you from TRUST Jul 6, 2023
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February 2023
- Feb 15, 2023 3 powerful questions to activate the success that feels elusive to you Feb 15, 2023
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August 2022
- Aug 23, 2022 You're textbook successful as a Leader but you don't feel it. Here's why... Aug 23, 2022
- Aug 23, 2022 What your Authority Energy actually is (and isn't) as a Leader. Aug 23, 2022
- Aug 23, 2022 8 ways to upgrade your Power & Pleasure as a Leader (even in testing times) Aug 23, 2022
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September 2020
- Sep 1, 2020 I'm a successful woman and my secret is I'm lonely Sep 1, 2020
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January 2020
- Jan 14, 2020 How to have a sex life when you're a workaholic Jan 14, 2020
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November 2019
- Nov 15, 2019 How to use the Ohnut - A review by sex therapist Lauren White Nov 15, 2019
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September 2019
- Sep 19, 2019 Why having an introverted libido is the best Sep 19, 2019
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August 2019
- Aug 27, 2019 What you’re really scared of in sex and intimacy Aug 27, 2019
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July 2019
- Jul 23, 2019 The real thing that’s holding your libido back Jul 23, 2019
- Jul 4, 2019 How to feel your libido when you are addicted to your work Jul 4, 2019
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November 2018
- Nov 30, 2018 Women's internal experience of pain with sex Nov 30, 2018
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September 2018
- Sep 5, 2018 Why do I shut down in sex? Sep 5, 2018
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April 2018
- Apr 18, 2018 Women: What do you do if you are not sexually satisfied? (rather than pretend you don’t care) Apr 18, 2018