What to do about low libido in your long-term relationship
Maybe you’ve got a low libido because you’ve “been together forever…”
Or maybe your libido is done denying your desire to be with a woman.
And what you’ve been able to ignore is becoming more pressing to finally deal with. Urgent even.
A fever that won’t break.
Because you’re both noticing that when they go to touch you in that way, you’re finding it harder and harder to pretend you’re happy to go along with it.
Even though you love them.
Even though you don’t want to fuck this good thing up.
But the idea of this being the *only* intimacy you have until the end of your days is daunting.
When you think: “This is it. This is what sex will be for the rest of my life.”
It’s no surprise you dry up, turn away and spout a well-worn excuse why now isn’t a good time…
…just so you’re tied over for a few more days or a week.
…just so you’ve got a bit more space so they don’t cotton on to the deep truth that you’re struggling to be turned on by the idea of fucking them (and only them).
But space - it doesn’t work to fix your flailing libido in a long-term relationship.
All that happens to that space is you fill it up with anything but the erotic part of you that hungers for your undivided attention.
Space can’t snuff an erotic impulse that’s being denied expression.
Impulses are made to fire.
And the only language your eroticism speaks is your congruent expression in the flesh.
There’s an emerging pathway where you consensually and authentically do both.
Feed the taboo desires you’ve been starving and resuscitate your long-term sex life.
Because the latter needs the former to happen.
It starts with cementing yourself as an out-of-bounds bitch made for living beyond a boxed-in hetero life…
…where you wield the power to turn inner fantasies & desires into tangible private experiences that are completely in and of your body…
…so you turn towards your partner, wanting them more than ever because your want is finally being given access-all-areas release.
It all becomes real – palpable – the moment you allow yourself to be expertly guided to experience the discreet bi life that’s inevitable for you.
O U T O F B O U N D S
is the one-month intensive to start privately acting on and living out your desired bi identity (even when you’re committed to your long-term relationship).
Confidentiality is a given.
