How to get a satisfying sex life as a high-performer

But first - we need to talk about why it already isn’t.

The real reason your sex life isn’t satisfying is you’re more comfortable investing in your business and career growth than in your relationship.

And that comes back to two specific beliefs quietly running your subconscious:

➤ That the money you invest comes back tenfold in your business – and will inevitably somehow flow into your relationship to benefit it

➤ That relationships should just work out organically – that you should be able to handle anything and everything in house.

Both beliefs hold some truth.

But neither is turning out to be your truth.

Because no matter how much you earn, your relationship isn’t improving in the sexual satisfaction stakes.

And maintaining a sense of pride that it’s only on the two of you to figure it out is keeping everything at a stalemate.

When a stalemate revealed itself to me in 2021, I began to reconceptualise our relationship. I decided to break a bond with complacency so I could cast our fate in a new direction – one where we’d never again have to ask: what the fuck happened to us?

I stepped out of the ego that told me I should already know how to navigate it all.

I owned that I – we – had blind spots.

And I brought in a third party to witness and reflect what we couldn’t see on our own.

We started putting down payments in aligned, embodied investments and trusted the tenfold return.

We went beyond the dinner-date mentality and into the terrain of what’s experiential, sensory and erotically intelligent.

The result is a relationship I can only describe as both incomparable and unconditional.

The real learning edge isn’t about treating your relationship like your business because it’s far more nuanced than that.

Your intimate life requires a bespoke, emotionally and erotically attuned approach that can’t be reduced to a social media post.

The true learning edge is congruence. To live in alignment with what you say you value most and to invest accordingly.

To stop seeing your relationship as an impediment to your business and start seeing it as the conduit that delivers the most gratifying returns.

It may not instantly reveal itself on a spreadsheet…but it will give you something your clients – no matter how much they pay – can’t.

The deep, embodied satisfaction of knowing you led in the places that everyone feels…but no one can quite name.

This is the work we do in LIBERATRIX.

The 3-month mentoring process for women who lead in business and want to lead in love — from sex, truth, and emotional power.

When you’re ready to invest in what truly satisfies, book your first session.