Your sex life is non-existent or rare. You don’t understand what all the fuss is about, why your partner wants sex so much and you get frustrated and pull away. Sex isn’t fun for you and you two are living in sexual boredom. You know what to expect every time and for some reason when sex is initiated, you just don’t want to. You question how their libido can be the same as when you first got together and yours feels like it is missing completely.

You have noticed that you and your partner aren’t connecting on other levels as well as sex. Your intimate communication may be minimal and you have realised that affectionate touch (without the expectation of sex) isn’t happening as much as you want it to. Without that warmth and acknowledgment, there is no way sex is going to happen. Your partner wants you to initiate but you just feel blocked. It doesn’t even enter your mind.

It doesn't help that you have a lot on your plate and you commit to a lot. It’s easier to stay busy than to deal with relationship problems and a dissatisfying sex life.

If you have kids as well, you may worry about having the privacy to have sex and being sexual just doesn’t feel compatible with being a mama and your other identities.



i know you want a brand new sex life.

Hi! I'm Lauren - Qualified Sexologist and confidante to women that want to crack open, dissolve their limiting blocks, say YES because they mean it and leave behind the mentality of I'm just not a sexual person. Sound good? Together, we can get you from:

Having sex in the dark to sex with the lights on.

Feeling like you have no libido to humming along beautifully EVERY day.

Thinking about your to-do list to actually being in the moment of sex.

Being completely disconnected from your body's pleasure to being empowered and lit up!

Feeling pressured, going quiet and not speaking up to asking for what you want right then and there.

Having a sex life where something is done to you to being an active (and joyous) participant.

We're talking all the stuff that women need to actually enjoy their sex lives. And we all know, that when women are happy, acknowledged and heard, everyone in her world benefits. She is magnetic because she OWNS it. 

You are ready and so very worthy. 

Like I’m sure many women, I was hesitant to visit a Sexologist – I was so private about what seemed to be to be an abnormal struggle that I shouldn’t tell anyone for fear of being outed as ‘strange’. Within ten minutes of my first session with Lauren these fears melted away to be replaced by real and genuine hope and comfort inspired by Lauren’s incredible warmth, honesty, vibrancy and energy which somehow makes you feel heard, justified and looked after all at once! Her knowledge of sexuality, the female body and relationships is outstanding, and she can explain to you in depth what and why you are feeling the way you are when even you are unsure.

She offers genuinely helpful tasks and advice to aid you through your sexuality journey, and understands how your changes will affect your partner, if one is present in your life. Whilst I expected to become more ‘secure’ in my sexual relationships over the four sessions I had, I become something much more intrinsically valuable and sustainable: confident in what I want and what I deserve.
— Amber, Brisbane

The very notion of being a woman who likes things a certain way, appreciates a good checklist (or timetable) and loves to hit life goals isn’t really synonymous with sexual liberation.


That if you dropped the idea of thinking you need to be anyone but yourself in sex that you would finally tap into the comforting truth that you’re sexual just as you are. That you don’t need someone to step in and confirm that you are sexual but that it is you that needs to give your libido the green light…

Permission...will cultivate, support and liberate your feminine reclamation so that you will never seek, or most importantly, need permission for your own sexual expression ever again.
— Lisa Lister, Bestselling author of Witch, Love Your Lady Landscape and Code Red