Your sex life is non-existent or rare. You don’t understand what all the fuss is about, why your partner wants sex so much and you get frustrated and pull away. Sex isn’t fun for you and you two are living in sexual boredom. You know what to expect every time and for some reason when sex is initiated, you just don’t want to. You question how their libido can be the same as when you first got together and yours feels like it is missing completely.

You have noticed that you and your partner aren’t connecting on other levels as well as sex. Your intimate communication may be minimal and you have realised that affectionate touch (without the expectation of sex) isn’t happening as much as you want it to. Without that warmth and acknowledgment, there is no way sex is going to happen. Your partner wants you to initiate but you just feel blocked. It doesn’t even enter your mind.

It doesn't help that you have a lot on your plate and you commit to a lot. It’s easier to stay busy than to deal with relationship problems and a dissatisfying sex life.

If you have kids as well, you may worry about having the privacy to have sex and being sexual just doesn’t feel compatible with being a mama and your other identities.




i know you want a brand new sex life.

Hi! I'm Lauren - Qualified Sexologist and confidante to women that want to crack open, dissolve their limiting blocks, say YES because they mean it and leave behind the mentality of I'm just not a sexual person. Sound good? Together, we can get you from:

Having sex in the dark to sex with the lights on.

Feeling like you have no libido to humming along beautifully EVERY day.

Thinking about your to-do list to actually being in the moment of sex.

Being completely disconnected from your body's pleasure to being empowered and lit up!

Feeling pressured, going quiet and not speaking up to asking for what you want right then and there.

Having a sex life where something is done to you to being an active (and joyous) participant.

We're talking all the stuff that women need to actually enjoy their sex lives. And we all know, that when women are happy, acknowledged and heard, everyone in her world benefits. She is magnetic because she OWNS it. 

You are ready and so very worthy. 


LET'S TALK MOJO, TOUCH AND CONFIDENCE IN july, August AND september 2017

Conversations was a HIT and it's coming back! If you don't already know, it is a 3 part series that gives women two hours in July, August and September to learn, talk, ask and share wisdom around hot topics in female sexuality. Think everything you have ever wanted to know about your body, sexual skills, communication, touch and getting out of your head and into your arousal. We will talk love, libido and life and they ways that these flow into your sex life (or don't).

Conversations is an all-inclusive series for women. I have created the sessions so that the content is relevant for women in all stages and phases of life: mamas, women in long-term relationships, women that are dating, women under 30…we all have more in common than we do differences and Conversations acknowledges that. Come to one session or come to all 3; just make sure you bring your questions and a little bit of courage to make the sessions fresh, lively and relevant.

Tickets will become available from July 1st for session 1 AND there will be a discounted option to come to all 3 (I vote come to all 3).

Attending Lauren’s workshop was definitely an awakening. I never thought my sex life was dull but this opened my mind to sexuality as opposed to sex. Looking at a whole of life approach to sex and integrating it into everyday life. A fantastic evening looking at all aspects of females, arousal and sexuality.
— ~ Alisha