How to make sex more satisfying when you’re a high-performer

You want sex to be so much more satisfying than this…

…but it can’t be when you’re trying so hard to eliminate every negative feeling before it even starts.

The memories for you are vivid: 

Sex cut short because of what was happening in your head.

Sex at times where you were just acquiescing to maintain the relationship status quo

Moments that felt more like a test of endurance than pleasure where you’re silently asking yourself: is it almost over?

So now, before sex even begins, you scan the space and scan yourself, doing everything in your power to remove anything that could possibly get in the way of your comfort.

You’re orchestrating perfect external and internal conditions so you can finally be fully present.

And yet – sex happens, and you’re still separate from that elusive satisfaction.

And if you’re really fucking honest about it, it’s not just that you’re not satisfied…

You’re bored.

Because in your effort to make sex “right,” your beautiful mind has gone so hard on comfort, you’ve strangled the very essence that makes it satisfying.

It’s stripped away the pleasure of overcoming a challenge.

It’s drained the arousal that emerges in the unexpected.

It’s kept you in control, when what you truly crave is power.

Because power – and the satisfaction that comes with it – isn’t born in carefully staged sex in a luxury hotel room with the clock ticking to check-out.

Power is forged when you can take any ordinary, mundane or even undesirable conditions in your external and internal landscape and alchemise them into climax and release.

It’s about turning what felt like nothing or even shit into pure erotic gold.

That’s what makes sex satisfying.

That’s what creates unforgettable erotic memories – even decades into a relationship.

That’s what leaves you panting, saying: “I had no idea that was going to happen!”

Satisfying sex doesn’t want your perfect conditions. It wants you to feel how fucking powerful you are when you alchemise what is into your precise desire.

And it will happen when you curb your obsession with control and become obsessed with your innate power.

This is EROTIC  ALCHEMY: the skill you carry everywhere, so you can create the exact sex and intimacy you desire, even when – especially when — the conditions aren’t entirely doing it for you.

The way to experience it firsthand is in securing your one-time session.