What your money disagreements are really about

You’ve just had another disagreement about how you’re going to invest your money.

You’re cracked open to pure possibility.

They’re contracting hard into responsibility.

And it plays out the same way every time: You advocate for what you know is the right move, get shut down, and then pivot to placating them just to keep the peace.

And once the frustration settles, a familiar thought takes hold, edged with a hint of revenge: Fine. I’ll just make more.

Because you can.

You always have.

But deep down, you know this isn’t about money.

It’s about power, intimacy and the parts of you still fighting to be met.

Like my client C, who craved deeper intimacy and partnership with her new husband but found money conversations falling into the same old dynamics she’d experienced in past relationships…capping her capacity to show up fully in business.

Driven by a refusal to be seen as “too much” or “money hungry” for simply wanting an exceptional life, she had to learn how to set the foundation for real conversations about equality and mutual contribution to ensure that this relationship was different.

Together, we worked on her potency and presence to unravel years of conditioning, so she could hold her ground in these kinds of highly charged interactions where she was accustomed to submitting.

She learnt to clearly voice what she wanted, breaking a lifelong pattern of shrinking to keep the peace and – according to her subconscious – keep the man.

Now, no longer carrying guilt for wanting it all, she’s relating with clarity and co-investing with him to bring her new bricks-and-mortar multi-disciplinary space to life.

This is the work we do in EROTIC ALCHEMY

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