Why you pull away in sex
Every time sex is propositioned, you’re trapped between two responses:
Go along with it and swallow your true feelings down…
…or withdraw politely, pinning your no on a valid excuse and hoping it gets you out of it.
Even though you don’t want it to be this way, you’ve justified it as normal – an organic byproduct of being together for years.
So the pattern of:
I love them.
I want to stay.
But I don’t want to fuck them
…cements itself, cycling on repeat until it feels like your only possible erotic reality with them.
And it makes you wonder what’s wrong with you when your body contracts every time they reach to touch you, whispering: not now, not tonight.
That contraction only fuels your frustration.
Because deep down, you want to want them.
You want to want sex.
And you want your love for them to be enough to make sex work.
But love alone doesn’t make sex work in long-term relationships.
Not until you have unfettered access to the unlimited pathways you didn’t even know existed…
….where you alchemise what holds you back into pure currents of erotic intrigue
…where satisfying sex and deep gratification aren’t random one-offs but inevitabilities.
Your lack of options in sex isn’t a problem to pathologise.
It’s an overdue initiation.
To live beyond the binary fork in the road and emerge into a landscape of infinite erotic possibilities…
where your bespoke toolkit informs your next turned on move in real time.
This is the work of EROTIC ALCHEMY.
Where I expertly guide you to reconnect with your inner alchemist – that molten, magnetic, nothing-can-fuck-with-me part of you that turns a bunch of dry elements into absolute erotic gold.
Erotic alchemy is where sex feels spontaneous again.
Where their touch stirs you to make the next seductive move instead of shutting you down.
Where you consistently respond with your erotic impulses front and centre – simply because you have the full range of choices you didn’t before.
All it requires is boundless curiosity and a deep desire to excavate the uncharted gold already inside of you.
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