You’ll have better sex when you stop doing this

You tell me you want better intimacy…but it can’t happen while you keep silently blaming your kids for your dissatisfying sex life.

Because your sex life has absolutely nothing to do with them.

And yet, you’ve pinned it on them:

The reason it can’t get started – the kids might interrupt.

The reason you don’t feel like it – the kids are wearing you down.

The reason you can’t spend quality time with your partner – the kind that acts as foreplay – you have to be present for the kids.

What was once a valid reason is now long gone.

But you’re still excusing yourself and holding the same energy of lack – of what can’t happen instead of what could if you got creative, resourceful and asked for the support you need to nurture yourself and your relationship.

Where your energy remains arrested is in the truth: your children have grown and developed but your sexuality, and your connection to it, is still locked in the same place as when they were little.

And keeping that narrative alive has been convenient because it absolves you from doing something that feels too fucking hard.

But it’s not on your kids to be or do different so you can finally give yourself permission to be sexual.

It’s on you.

And the moment you absolve them of responsibility for your eroticism – how erotic you are, whether you’re erotic at all – is the moment you take your power back and claim the intimate life you’re worthy of.

They’re not the obstacle.

They’re the reason to go deeper within yourself so they don’t inherit the same sexual hangups you’ve carried.

This is what it means to be a leader. A way-shower.

Being a parent isn’t just about protecting them from harm. It’s about becoming the embodiment of power from the beginning…so they never have to unravel from the same conditioning you did.

This is the work of LIBERATRIX.

The 3-month mentoring process where we unravel the relational dynamics that put your sex, power, and emotional integrity into lockdown, so you can lead in your love life the way you lead in your business: from truth, depth and desire.

Book your first session when you’re ready to stop waiting for permission and start reclaiming the part of you that was never truly gone – just buried under an old story of responsibility tangled in resentment.