Why you’re being overlooked as a sexual woman in your relationship
You’re doing everything in your power to be truly seen by your partner and yet…you’re constantly being overlooked by them.
Getting their basic love isn’t the hard part.
They make you coffee and peck you goodbye.
They get shit done around the house that instantly makes your pussy dry.
They tell you they’re here for you, day in and day out.
You know they love you – that’s never in question.
But they’re overlooking you as the deeply sexual woman who expects to be met, acknowledged and tended to as the absolute forcefield she is.
And it’s not because you’re not beautiful, desirable, or worthy.
You’re being overlooked because you’re holding back the raw, unfiltered belief in yourself as an erotic being no matter what the conditions, context or circumstance.
They see you as the one who holds life together, who handles everything, who always delivers…
…but not the one who drips mystery, leaves them wanting for more. The one who feels like lightning when she speaks and when she’s between the sheets.
It’s happening because you’re not allowing yourself to be fully expressed in and out of the bedroom
You’re not letting yourself take up erotic space in your dynamic and
You’re not embodying the power you already possess – from your root, all the way up and out your throat.
Creating the perfect storm of:
“If they can’t see me for all that I am, I’ll just keep withholding.”
Your partner feels that hesitation, that self-doubt, that dimming of your erotic light.
And until you believe in your own potency, they can’t see you as it.
This is where E R O T I C A L C H E M Y comes in.
The moment you own your erotic identity – the deep, transformative pleasure only you bring – you awaken a whole new axis of magnetism and command.
When you’re all in on you, when you claim your aliveness as sacred, when you trust your body’s power…
…they’ll be all in on you too.
As long as your presence says: “I can’t be sexual until you validate me…” you’ll keep being overlooked.
But when your presence declares: “I am a sexual force and I select you to witness it, to feel it, to experience it…”
everything changes.
Your partner doesn’t want a dutiful, good wife performance from you.
They want the woman who believes in herself without question.
The woman who lets desire course through her veins.
The woman who owns her ability to switch on her eroticism — fast.
The second your focus shifts from:
“Will they see me?” to
“I know I’m unmissable.”
– that’s the moment you stop being overlooked.
That’s the moment you are truly seen…because you’ve finally fully seen all of yourself.
