Do you allow people to be the barometer for how you feel about yourself? Are you someone who puts in a big effort to make everyone happy… then you end up drained and uncharged? Do you find yourself saying “I like her but I don’t like her”? Magnetism is a balancing act between attracting and repelling. But, repulsion is not often talked about because it means you turned off people. I’m telling you, everyone wants to be magnetic. You just have to be comfortable saying no to people when circumstances call for it. If you want to get closer to attracting the right people in your life, you have to get used to repelling other people. Listen to this solo episode to find out the secrets of repelling.
In this episode, we talk about:
Magnetism is a balance of attracting and repelling
Choosing the option that’s right for your circumstances
What you get from harnessing the energy of repelling
The fully charged version of you versus a diluted version
Having fire in your message would repel people… and it is a desirable state
The big question I ask “Who is here for this? Who’s with me?”
People pleasing is un-magnetic
Repelling people is not the end of your business
Be unshakeable when people reject you
Don’t be half-in and half-out the door. Make a choice
What you repel are parts of yourself you are struggling to embrace
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