The secrets of being bi – the episode that started everything

First released in 2021. Still the most important thing I've ever said into a microphone.

It was close to 10pm on a Tuesday night when I got up, pressed record and told the truth.

No script. No plan. No idea what was about to happen to my life.

In this episode I shared something that had been living in my secret life for years – and released it into the world before I could talk myself out of it.

I came out as bisexual.

This is that episode.

The one I recorded before I called my family. Before anyone knew what was coming. Before I found out whether I would still be loved.

I'm sharing it with you now because if you're a bi or bi-curious woman carrying something quietly – something you haven't yet given yourself permission to say out loud – I want you to know:

You're not alone. You never were. And the moment you stop keeping it secret?

Everything shifts.

In this episode:

• Why I decided to share this part of my identity publicly – and the paradox at the heart of that decision.

• The difference between something being private and something being secret – and why that distinction changed everything for me.

• What becomes available when you finally understand and accept yourself fully.

• What I want you to do with your own version of this information.

To hear what happened four years after this episode — listen to my 2025 update here.

Ready to stop carrying it quietly? Book your private Exploration Call here.