WOMEN! SEX CAN BE SOMETHING YOU WANT TO DO.
Your sex life is non-existent or rare. You don’t understand what all the fuss is about, why your partner wants sex so much and you get frustrated and pull away. Sex isn’t fun for you and you two are living in sexual boredom. You know what to expect every time and for some reason when sex is initiated, you just don’t want to. You question how their libido can be the same as when you first got together and yours feels like it is missing completely.
You have noticed that you and your partner aren’t connecting on other levels as well as sex. Your intimate communication may be minimal and you have realised that affectionate touch (without the expectation of sex) isn’t happening as much as you want it to. Without that warmth and acknowledgment, there is no way sex is going to happen. Your partner wants you to initiate but you just feel blocked. It doesn’t even enter your mind.
It doesn't help that you have a lot on your plate and you commit to a lot. It’s easier to stay busy than to deal with relationship problems and a dissatisfying sex life.
If you have kids as well, you may worry about having the privacy to have sex and being sexual just doesn’t feel compatible with being a mama and your other identities.
IT'S TIME TO LET ALL OF THAT GO...