TO WOMEN WHO WANT TO OPEN TO RECEIVING SEX, PLEASURE, & INTIMACY --
BUT DON’T KNOW HOW
Hello high-achieving woman,
I see you.
I see you conquering your career. Your day is crammed full. You can’t stand idle time with no purpose. You’re all about kicking goals & delivering results.
You’re very comfortable with the output you can deliver at work. Achievement makes you feel more confident.
But these high standards of yours are relentless. You’re always questioning whether you can do better.
That perfectionism pushes you to work harder, work more… go, go, go.
Constantly checking that everything is perfect has become a part of who you are. But it’s also starting to feel like it’s suffocating you.
When you’re chipping away at your to-do list & spending all day pushing things along, it’s no wonder you’re having trouble getting out of that mode in the bedroom.
Perhaps you’re starting to realise that applying the mindset of: when this happens perfectly, then I’ll get XYZ outcome... might work in the office but it just doesn’t work in sex.
You see yourself moving through your goals, shredding old problems and climbing up in life... but you now see that your libido hasn’t climbed up all that way with you.
I know this because I talk to women like you all the time.
The women that I see tell me that they’re dominating their work life, and then when they get into the bedroom, they struggle to let go.
They tell me that their need to control minute details and intense fear of making mistakes has left them paralysed…unable to be vulnerable or intimate.
Work is a mirror for what’s happening in intimacy...
They feel like they’re missing out on this great experience with their partner that has the potential to make them relaxed but instead they feel more anxious.
They’re so used to having all the answers. But when their partner asks...
“What do you want?”
“What can I do for you?”
“What will help you?”
They don’t know the answer.
And, just like them, not knowing the answer is stressing you out because you hate disappointing people - especially your partner. You don’t want them to feel rejected.
That’s why I do this work. For you. And your libido.
Because it’s 100% possible for you to be a high achiever, love your work & leave space for your libido.
You can have both. You don’t need to choose.