I am taking a huge breath in before I reveal my greatest shame to you all.
Only a few friends and family know this and it has been an ongoing source of angst and embarrassment to me for the last 4 years. It sounds really splashy, like the cover of New Idea magazine… Sexologist reveals greatest shame! (I can see it as I write this). But in all honesty, I have to speak to it in a public forum. It’s too exhausting trying to navigate the terrain of who knows and who doesn’t know.