Sexual Energy

Why you have a high libido (even when you think you don’t)

Why you have a high libido (even when you think you don’t)

You have a big libido. It is boundless and has everything and nothing to do with sex.

Your libido can rage and roar for the non-sexual and leave nothing in reserve for sex.

I have a high libido but it doesn’t translate clearly or directly to sex. My libido is my power source and it can burn so brightly that it burns out. I don’t like to admit this. When I use the word power source, I don’t necessarily mean it as a fuel but representative of my actual power.

Guess what happens when I don’t feel my power?

Confidence Series #3: How to let your wild woman out (without booze or drugs)

Confidence Series #3: How to let your wild woman out (without booze or drugs)

The more you know your truest self and all your light and shadow and shame and sexuality and all that you are, the less you need to escape from yourself. The more you know how to let the wild part of you out, the less you need to rely on a substance to do it for you.

This is about all the ways you can unleash your wild woman - simply and drug and alcohol free. 

You need to part with your MONEY to gain your SEXUALITY.

You need to part with your MONEY to gain your SEXUALITY.

I am a sexual woman

I am a sexual woman who has spent $50k on my sexuality.

(At least).

Yes. You need to exchange one to receive the other. It isn’t tawdry. It is necessary.

Here’s why.

FEMALE SEXUALITY: Is your business killing your sex life?

FEMALE SEXUALITY: Is your business killing your sex life?

You pour your heart, soul and every sap of energy into your biz. But is this leaving your libido trailing behind? In this article, I reveal how you can transition from Boss Lady by day to Authentically Embodied by night.

3 and 3 – Three things I have learnt about LIFE and three things I have learnt about SEX on my 33rd birthday

3 and 3 – Three things I have learnt about LIFE and three things I have learnt about SEX on my 33rd birthday

Thirty-three. Three and three. This is my list of three life lessons you must follow and three big pearls about sex I have learnt in the last (you guessed it!) 33 years. I quickly deemed a list of 33 just way too long. And too much pressure. And I couldn’t be bothered because I need to get onto buying a cheesecake. Priorities.

FROM THE SEXOLOGISTS DESK: I am the desire huntress

FROM THE SEXOLOGISTS DESK: I am the desire huntress

So, now I am willing to share my core learning. Deep-breath-IN. The nugget that took five plus years to reveal itself to me. The reason why my sexuality evolved from being stuck, turning away from sex, being passive, stopping sex and denying pleasure TO asking for pleasure, being sexually satisfied, attuned to my body’s sensations and ultimately a sex goddess...

SEXUAL ENERGY: 7 ways to kick-start a sexual makeover

SEXUAL ENERGY: 7 ways to kick-start a sexual makeover

We all love the notion of a quick fix; that reading an article will emancipate us from our sexual woes, hang-ups and boredom. Being a sexologist doesn’t absolve you from this tendency as I too secretly scan articles online after being lured in by the flashy title. But feel into these little nuggets below and begin your own personal makeover by turning a passive read into active sexual energy. 

SEXUAL ENERGY: Cross-training your sex life

SEXUAL ENERGY: Cross-training your sex life

Cross-training your sex life involves injecting novelty and variety inward. But rather than suggest old favourites like lingerie or a night at a hotel, I’d like to guide you more towards creating some long-lasting pathways that will really mean something to you.

FEMALE SEXUALITY: I want to be wild / I want to be in control

FEMALE SEXUALITY: I want to be wild / I want to be in control

At age 19, I was told - you need more scandal in your life; words that resonate even today as I grapple with the ability to be everything that is true to me whilst accessing that component of my being that wants to go against the grain. It is the quintessential good girl vying to grasp for that which disregards everything that a good girl should embody…

YOUR SEX CHAKRA: The door to sexuality, creativity and sensuality

The sacral chakra is the second energy centre of our body that is represented by our sex glands, bladder, pelvis and lower abdomen. Although no one chakra is superior to another, this is a powerful centre that governs how we respond to and act towards sexuality, relationships, creativity, sensuality and even power.

NYMPHOMANIAC: A sexologists take on the film, the definition and what female sexuality has to contend with

NYMPHOMANIAC: A sexologists take on the film, the definition and what female sexuality has to contend with

But somehow when it comes to a female that flirts with danger, sexual competition and at times, manipulation when it comes to her body and sexuality, we can be prone to becoming perplexed, astonished and even thinking that there is something wrong or unhealthy that needs to be fixed.

SEX COACHING: Who goes to a sex coach?

The real answer is that clients are real people that are ready to reflect back on where their sexuality has taken them and how they can access it in other ways and on deeper levels. They present to sex coaching knowing that it is possible to feel more of their sexuality but are unsure of the means to get there.