Lauren White

How often does a sexologist have sex?

How often does a sexologist have sex?

Surely a person who has studied and works with sex every day has A LOT of sex…Right? Right? *cicadas* Well, no. Sexual frequency is such a personal thing and in this blog and in my life, I keep the focus on the quality rather than the quantity and I only ever want the same for you. Here is your permission slip to have a sex life kinda like mine…

Confidence Series #2 : The reasons why I shouldn't feel confident (but do anyway)

Confidence Series #2 : The reasons why I shouldn't feel confident (but do anyway)

I’m the confident woman that has had her confidence shaken in so many realms of my life. As I have dived deeper into personal work (and trust me, sexuality work is the deepest work you can do so I have been living in a kind of deep end for years) I find that the need to clear crap from my body and psyche can be done quickly and rather painlessly. Clearing through the throat and speaking up is really effective for me and occasionally I like to do this publicly to feel truly released...

CELEBRATING 3 years of Sexosophy!!

CELEBRATING 3 years of Sexosophy!!

It's true that I haven't birthed Sexosophy - it has birthed me. There is symbiosis and flow. It reveals to me and I reflect back. Back and forth, back and forth. I remember this day 3 years ago, walking through Central Station with my palms sweating thinking 'I am so fucking scared of doing this but I just have to try'. And that was it.

3 and 3 – Three things I have learnt about LIFE and three things I have learnt about SEX on my 33rd birthday

3 and 3 – Three things I have learnt about LIFE and three things I have learnt about SEX on my 33rd birthday

Thirty-three. Three and three. This is my list of three life lessons you must follow and three big pearls about sex I have learnt in the last (you guessed it!) 33 years. I quickly deemed a list of 33 just way too long. And too much pressure. And I couldn’t be bothered because I need to get onto buying a cheesecake. Priorities.

FROM THE SEXOLOGISTS DESK: Revealing my Greatest Shame

FROM THE SEXOLOGISTS DESK: Revealing my Greatest Shame

I am taking a huge breath in before I reveal my greatest shame to you all.

Only a few friends and family know this and it has been an ongoing source of angst and embarrassment to me for the last 4 years. It sounds really splashy, like the cover of New Idea magazine… Sexologist reveals greatest shame! (I can see it as I write this). But in all honesty, I have to speak to it in a public forum. It’s too exhausting trying to navigate the terrain of who knows and who doesn’t know.