Do you feel like sex is something you “should” do to please others, rather than something you actually want to do?
You don’t understand what all the fuss is about when it comes to sex and why your partner wants it so much. You get frustrated and pull away.
Sex isn’t fun for you and you two are living in sexual boredom. You know what to expect every time and for some reason when sex is initiated, you just don’t want to. You question how their libido can be the same as when you first got together and yours feels like it is missing completely.
You have noticed that you and your partner aren’t connecting on other levels as well as sex. Your communication about sex and intimacy may be minimal and you have realised that affectionate touch (without the expectation of sex) isn’t happening as much as you want it to. Without that warmth and acknowledgment, there is no way sex is going to happen. Your partner wants you to initiate, but you just feel blocked. It doesn’t even enter your mind.
All of this is happening because you feel like you can’t let go.
You’re used to living in a state of stress and busyness and anxiety is like an old friend. You can’t stop thinking about the laundry list of things that you should be doing instead of trying to make a frustrating sex life work.
It doesn't help that you have a lot on your plate and you commit to a lot. It’s easier to stay busy than to deal with relationship problems and a dissatisfying sex life. If you have kids as well, you may worry about having the privacy to have sex and being sexual just doesn’t feel compatible with being a mama and your other identities as an employee, colleague, daughter, friend and wife.
It’s time to be engaged in your sex life rather than feeling alienated from it...
In the privacy and safety of personalised sessions
You know that there will be benefit in releasing everything that is brewing inside: the frustration, the pain...the anguish. But just thinking about talking to someone about your most personal details feels even harder than thinking about your crappy sex life!
You know that if you take this step, you need to feel safe, supported and above all - that you are speaking in confidence.
Private sessions allow for all of this and more as the information is tailored to your specific problem areas so that you can stop describing your sex life as ‘frustrating’ and start using words like honest, natural and enjoyable.
If it feels like you need a miracle to turn your avoidance of sex into feeling open (and even eager) for it, then you are exactly the kind of woman that will get the most out of sessions.
If your relationship is in it for the long haul, placing effort into your intimate connection is a sound investment that has endless returns.
To get you from feeling blocked & anxious to empowered & liberated, I’ve created these personalised packages...