Do you feel like sex is something you “should” do to please others, rather than something you actually want to do?

 

You don’t understand what all the fuss is about when it comes to sex and why your partner wants it so much. You get frustrated and pull away.

Sex isn’t fun for you and you two are living in sexual boredom. You know what to expect every time and for some reason when sex is initiated, you just don’t want to. You question how their libido can be the same as when you first got together and yours feels like it is missing completely.

You have noticed that you and your partner aren’t connecting on other levels as well as sex. Your communication about sex and intimacy may be minimal and you have realised that affectionate touch (without the expectation of sex) isn’t happening as much as you want it to. Without that warmth and acknowledgment, there is no way sex is going to happen. Your partner wants you to initiate, but you just feel blocked. It doesn’t even enter your mind.

 

All of this is happening because you feel like you can’t let go.

 

You’re used to living in a state of stress and busyness and anxiety is like an old friend. You can’t stop thinking about the laundry list of things that you should be doing instead of trying to make a frustrating sex life work.

 

It doesn't help that you have a lot on your plate and you commit to a lot. It’s easier to stay busy than to deal with relationship problems and a dissatisfying sex life. If you have kids as well, you may worry about having the privacy to have sex and being sexual just doesn’t feel compatible with being a mama and your other identities as an employee, colleague, daughter, friend and wife.

 

It’s time to be engaged in your sex life rather than feeling alienated from it...

    In the privacy and safety of personalised sessions

 

You know that there will be benefit in releasing everything that is brewing inside: the frustration, the pain...the anguish. But just thinking about talking to someone about your most personal details feels even harder than thinking about your crappy sex life!

 

You know that if you take this step, you need to feel safe, supported and above all - that you are speaking in confidence.

 

Private sessions allow for all of this and more as the information is tailored to your specific problem areas so that you can stop describing your sex life as ‘frustrating’ and start using words like honest, natural and enjoyable.

 

If it feels like you need a miracle to turn your avoidance of sex into feeling open (and even eager) for it, then you are exactly the kind of woman that will get the most out of sessions.

 

If your relationship is in it for the long haul, placing effort into your intimate connection is a sound investment that has endless returns.
 

To get you from feeling blocked & anxious to empowered & liberated, I’ve created these personalised packages...

Here’s 2 ways that I can help you

Option 1: The Transformation Package

You have avoided sex for such a long time that you feel stuck as to how to even get it started. It's shrouded in awkwardness and you have lost your mojo and confidence (even though you love your partner). Perhaps it has reached the point where pain with sex has become unbearable (or impossible) and you are now ready to see what lies beyond it. There's this big part of you that feels restrained - in your body, in your voice, in your identity and you are willing to break new ground to explore more of what lives inside you.

What you get:

+6x sessions that go for 1 hour each

+email support in-between sessions

+personalised fact sheets so that you can stay informed out of session time and we can use our time together wisely

+access to my exclusive online erotic education video library and books from my collection that address your specific concerns

 

The Transformation Package is right for you if you want to:

+Stop avoiding sex altogether and gently introduce or re-introduce it

+Move beyond sexual pain and discomfort

+Feel positive about your sex life after resolved trauma has re-emerged

+Own your sexual pleasure rather than continually handing it over to someone else to work out

+Create solid boundaries in intimacy, sex and daily life

+Be the woman who can source her desires and confidently speak to them through clear communication skills

+Feel completely comfortable with being both a mother AND sexual

+Learn how to orgasm and bring more orgasmic sensation into their sexual experiences

Your Investment: $1190 (less $260 credit when you book in for your introductory session - keep reading!)

 

Option 2: The Discovery Package

You are going through a life change...you have made a commitment to a partner you love but your libido is nowhere to be seen. Maybe getting married hasn't given you much bliss in the bedroom (why did you close down?). Or perhaps your newly single status has you thinking about what patterns you need to shed before you get into the next relationship - the one where you are determined to know and honour your sexual worth.

What you get:

+3 x talk sessions that go for 1 hour each 

+email support in-between sessions

+personalised fact sheets so that you can stay informed out of session time and we can use our time together wisely

+access to my exclusive online erotic education video library and books from my collection that address your concerns

 

The Discovery Package is right for you if you want to:

+Receive some straight-forward answers to the problem areas in your sex life and relationship

+Make sex in a long-distance relationship a whole lot easier when you are together

+Learn the basics of feeling sexually safe by reducing anxiety and apprehension

+Get an overview of your blocks (and some ideas how to dissolve them)

+Gently increase the volume on your libido

+Learn some practical skills around touch

+Clearly communicate your most pressing concerns to your partner

Your Investment: $770 (less $260 credit when you book in for your introductory session - keep reading!)

 

How does it work?

It's an exciting time when you make the decision to open up, shed and let go.

When you know it's a yes to get started working with me, I'll be here, ready and waiting.

But before we go jumping ahead, here's how it works:

Phase 1: Getting to know each other

The introductory session allows us the time to fully assess your concerns and what you want to achieve from sessions. We will discuss all the various parts of you as a person because your sex life doesn’t happen in isolation to the rest of your life.

Phase 2: Body awareness and intention setting

You probably spend most of your life in your head where it is busy and constantly trying to achieve. In the second phase of your process, we’ll start to get you more tuned into your body - not just for sex, but for setting boundaries (because sometimes you over-give and over-deliver, leaving you burnt out), knowing how you really feel about something in the moment and giving your body the green light to express rather than suppress.

Phase 3: Demystifying sex and your body

We’ll bust the myths about what you “should” be doing in the bedroom and start to tap into what you really want and how you can follow through with your desires in a way that is real and natural to you. It is in this phase that you will start to give yourself permission to ask yourself what you want, not what’s best for everyone else.

Phase 4: Your sexual activation

We’ll start talking about how you can gently and tenderly put everything you have learned into practice. This is a no-pressure environment. We’ll only start with this phase when you’re ready and open to it. Your safety and comfort is the top priority so we will wade into the waters, not drop you into the deep end.

 

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Is this right for me?

Sessions are for you if you:

+Identify as a woman biologically and in gender

+Are doing this more for you than your relationship

+Feel ready to express, speak up and own all the parts of yourself

+Are saying yes to doing home exercises and instilling learning at home

+Are willing to talk about the patterns in your life

+Are able to be candid and honest

 

Sessions are not for you if you:

+Feel pressured by your partner to attend (and you don’t want to)

+If this is the ‘last hope’ for your relationship and you haven’t had couples counselling

+Are expecting instant, overnight results. Your connection to your sexuality takes time and women need a sweet blend of effort and practice to be aligned with it

+Are needing to process a history of sexual and personal trauma: this is best done with a clinical psychologist

+Are experiencing an active eating disorder (being malnourished will block any changes within your libido); a psychiatric disorder that has relapsed and is currently unmanaged or are misusing drugs and alcohol in a way that is presently impacting your self-care, health and judgment.

I have been empowered and given so much confidence. I feel like I’m a completely different person to the girl who started out just under 3 months ago. Every fear I had, has now vanished. I am far more confident in myself, in my body and in my relationship. Lauren’s magic is incredible.
— Annie, Brisbane

 

Ready to get going?

Let’s start with a small taste-tester first.

When you start your first session, you will probably feel a bit nervous and unsure of what to expect - that is completely normal!

To make it less scary for you, we’ll start with a 90 minute introductory session in my office in Brisbane or via Skype so that we have plenty of time to get to know each other and to give you space to put a voice to your problems and what has brought you to this point.

This session is all about making you feel comfortable and we only go where you feel ready and comfortable go. It’s both productive and pressure-free.

At the end of the introductory session, we then decide whether you need any more sessions. Whist we cover as much ground as possible in the first session, it is important that you have a pathway ahead that will move you from feeling stuck, frustrated and closed off to being open, clear, decisive and above all, interested in sex. Completing sessions as a process will allow your intentions to become your reality.

If you’re thinking I know I need to do something about this, but I’m scared, then this is the perfect little starter session for you to help calm your nerves about saying yes to exploring further.

 

Your INVESTMENT

90min Introductory session :: $260

Plus, you also get $260 credit to put towards any sessions packages with me.

 
 
Thank you Lauren! The advice and knowledge from personalised sessions have enabled me to reconnect my mind and body. I have been able to rekindle the passion I used to have and want with my husband.
— Tammy, Adelaide

I know it can be daunting making an investment in your intimate life when you have already felt so much frustration.

Our sex lives are full of habits that can be hard to shake. Regardless of your relationship status, lots of people get into sex ruts because we lose interest, mystery and desire when there is a lot of predictability.

When it comes to your intimate relationships, sex is the one form of expression that differentiates it from the connection that you have with your friends, family and colleagues.

And it does more than just make babies. It keeps the warm and fuzzies going, reduces tension, increases bonding and taps into sensations and feelings that are pretty hard to get elsewhere!

You could spend hours faffing about on the internet looking for specific answers to your most pressing questions about your sex life and still come up empty handed (and a whole lot more confused). This can equal more time lost, more disconnection, conflict and stress when you could be solving your problems and shifting your habits.

Tell me, would this process of under 5 hours be worth it?

 

your INVESTMENT

Initial talk session of 90 minutes :: $260

Plus you also get $260 credit to put towards any sessions packages with me.

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Start by booking your introductory session via my calendar link ::

2) I will then email you a PayPal invoice for your package. Payment is due within 48 hours of receipt. 

3) You will receive email confirmation of your payment, pre-session information and my specific location in Brisbane northside (Alderley) or Skype details.

4) You will receive an email reminder 24 hours before our session

 

FAQ'S

Can I skip the 90min Introductory Session and jump straight to a full package?

The introductory session is important for setting the foundation for future sessions. Rather than skip it entirely, we have it as our first session in a package. Contact me via email if you know it is a yes for you to commit to a package upfront.

How/where will we meet?

I am available for sessions with women in the Brisbane Northside (Alderley) office and offer Skype sessions for women that reside in other locations.

What session times do you have available?

Session times: Wednesday and Friday daytime

                          Wednesday evenings and 

                          select Saturday mornings

How soon can we start?

The introductory session of 90 minutes can usually be secured within one week of you clicking on my calendar link.

How quickly will I see results?

My clients begin to see outcomes and progress towards their intentions for coaching after the second session.

How far apart are sessions spaced?

It is most helpful to you if we have the second session within a week of the first session so that you feel like there is a sense of continuation after identifying your concerns and intentions in the initial talk session. The space between future sessions is most commonly 2-3 weeks depending on both of our schedules and your needs from sessions.

What if I get to the end of my package and discover that I need more sessions?

It happens - sometimes there is more to explore If you have a completed a package and need further sessions, you will be quoted an hourly rate and a competitive rate for 3 sessions or more.

Do you have Medicare or private health rebates?

No.

Is there a guarantee?

You are your only guarantee. I’ll come to the table with my years of expertise and give you everything I know about female sexuality and relating to our partners with confidence. But you also need to come to the party and take ACTION. You can guarantee your own results by doing the work and making it happen based on all the advice I share with you.

 

Your INVESTMENT

Initial talk session of 90 minutes :: $260

Plus you also get $260 credit to put towards any sessions packages with me.