FEMALE SEXUALITY: Feeling safe = feeling sexual

Tried and true - women need to feel safe in order to feel open and disinhibited - we have seen the evidence on fMRI's when all of her systems of hypervigilance are switched OFF. We are more loving, more vulnerable, kinder, full-hearted and ORGASMIC!

Just because you are in a committed relationship, doesn't mean you feel safe. In sex coaching we look at what the threats to your sense of safety are and more often than not, they are the self-imposed threats and limitations that are the most destructive. Moving from threat and high alert to safety and switched ON (in the best possible way) is so fucking possible! Don't wait until you are on the edge of the bed making pledges with the unknown that you will do anything to get out of sex. I have seen the other side of this and it is bitter, curt and consistently disappointed. She is closed, impenetrable and hungry for more anger.

She'll never win and her libidinous energy will dissolve and leave a voracious hole. You are dynamic and have the capacity to change this pattern for you. Get safe, crack open and feel fully woman.

Lauren xo